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Choosing a Pediatrician

As a nurse and a Prepared Childbirth instructor, I get asked frequently about choosing pediatricians.  In today's world, there is so much to think about, obsess over, and stress about with your first (and subsequent!) babies.  And while choosing a pediatrician shouldn't send you over the edge, it should be a decision you spend some time thinking about.

First, should you even use a pediatrician?  Can't you just use your family practitioner?
     Well, yes, you can use your family practitioner.  If you feel comfortable with them and comfortable having your child cared by them, then sure!  Of course your family practitioner's have been trained and have degrees to be doing what they are doing.  One thing to consider, though, is that family practitioners see a wide range of patients.  They can see infants all the way to the elderly.  Because of that, they may not see as many children and subsequently may not be as "up to date" on what to look for in children.
     Pediatricians see children from birth through 18 years.  They have extensive training specifically in the pediatric population.  They know what to look for in pediatric patients, they see the same age range every single day, similar childhood diseases, outbreaks, etc. and may diagnose pediatric illnesses quicker because of that.
     Neither is right or wrong.  If you trust your family practitioner enough to care for your newborn, that's great!  I would just caution you to at least give some thought to using a pediatric office.

You've decided to find a pediatrician.  Now what?
One thing I get all of my expectant moms to do is create a list of things that are important to them regarding their child's care.  Things like:

  • circumcision: do you want it done in the hospital or after discharge in the office?  No circumcision at all?
  • vaccines: if we don't want vaccines, will you take us as patients?  Would you be willing to do a delay or space out vaccines if that's what we want?
  • same-day sick appointments?
  • Weekend hours?
  • After-hour hours?  After-hour phone number?
  • Support for breastfeeding moms?  Support for formula feeding moms?
Once you've got your list, talk to friends, family, and co-workers to get trusted opinions on pediatrician's they use.  Word of mouth is generally a great way to find good pediatricians.  People are not typically shy in giving you honest thoughts on any subject and if they have negatives, they'll let you know!

When you have your list of pediatricians to check out, call them and make sure they take your insurance.  The last thing you want is to pick a pediatrician you love, just to find they don't accept your insurance!  When you call to ask, take note of the staff.  Are they friendly?  Did you get put on hold?  How long?  *All offices have busy days, so don't use this as your sole reason for discarding a certain pediatric office.*  
As you go through your list, which ones are close to your home?  You may be willing to drive farther for well-visits, but what happens when your baby wakes up sick in the night?  Do you want to be traveling 30 minutes to a sick visit or would you rather be closer to home?

Hopefully, you've narrowed your list down to a few pediatric offices and at this point, my suggestion is to go visit them.  Set up a time to meet with one (or a few!) of the care providers in the office, take your list, and get face-to-face with them.  This is your chance to see how they respond to parents, how they align with your thoughts, and if there are any red flags.

Other thoughts to consider when choosing a pediatrician:
  • are they AAP certified?
  • how long have they been practicing?
  • do they have Nurse Practitioners, Physician's Assistants, or other doctors in the group?
  • how long do appointments typically last?
  • is the practice affiliated with a hospital? (if your child ended up in the hospital, would they be rounding at the hospital to see your child)
  • any specialists at the office?
  • how do they stay up-to-date on current practices?
  • do you feel like they listened to your concerns or questions?

You, as the parent, are an advocate for your child.  It's important that you find someone who will care for your child and advocate for them as well.  Choosing a pediatrician doesn't have to be stressful and taking a few preparation steps before baby is born can help with this important decision!

What are your thoughts?  I'd love to hear whether you chose a family physician or pediatrician for your littles and why!

Carseat Safety

This post is one I wrote a year ago (although I've tweaked it now!) on my old blog.  School is keeping me busy this week but I'm enjoying the blog world again, so I wanted to post!

 I'll start by saying: these are my own thoughts and only that.  I'm not looking to start a fight and I am by no means judging other mommas! To each his (or her!) own.  We are all looking for the best way to care for our own families and this is how I'm choosing to care for mine.

Part of the issue today with everything is that there are too many options!  There are 15 different kinds of fat-free milk at the grocery store, 20 different types of toilet paper, and 17 different flavors of goldfish! Y'all, why do we need 17 different flavors of goldfish??! (I'm pretty sure these aren't accurate numbers at all, but you get my point!). 

It's a blessing and a curse, really.

The same goes for carseats.  We aren't relying on one badly made carseat to protect our child, but it's our responsibility as their parent to research the thousands that are on the market to make the best decision in case the inevitable were to happen.


Please look at how tiny my baby girl was!

When Hadley was little, we used the Chicco key fit 30.  Griffin now uses this car seat because it is still within the expiration date and hasn't been in any accidents.  Hadley now rides in the Chicco Nextfit.  When Griffin is old enough to need a bigger seat, we will research the best car seat for him and us at that time.  Here are some of the things we did/ continue to do with our carseats:

1. Professionally Installed: We called our local police department and set up a time for them to TEACH us how to install the carseat correctly.  One of our cars has the new LATCH system and one doesn't.  We needed to know how to install the carseats into both vehicles.  We needed to know how to change them correctly if we ever got a new car, and we learned a lot of tips and tricks to making sure the car seat wasn't moving.  It was one of the best things we did. 

**With Griffin, we already knew how to put in the carseats, so we didn't do this again.  However, if it had been long enough that I had forgotten, we definitely would have done it again because like I said, it was one of the best things we did. 

http://www.nhtsa.gov/Safety/LATCH
http://www.car-safety.org/latch.html


Baby brother!

2. Rear-facing: Hadley will be rear-facing for as long as possible.  Even though guidelines say you can turn forward-facing at 2, we will NOT turn her around to forward-facing at two years of age.  The Chicco Nextfit allows her to be rear-facing up to 40 pounds, or until she reaches the height limit of her carseat.  She's a petite thing and nowhere near 40 pounds or the height limit.  Recent research has shown that children's neck muscles are not strong enough to withstand impact if they are forward-facing before 4 years of age.  Clearly if she was too big to be rear-facing, we would have her forward-facing, but she's not so we won't.  She doesn't know any different yet, so she doesn't fight us about it.

  **Hadley is still rear-facing and she will be three in October.  She hasn't even hit the 30 lb. mark yet.  She has only recently started asking why her friends carseats "look funny" but hasn't questioned why she is rear-facing.  She just climbs in on her own and loves kicking her carseat mirror!**

http://csftl.org/why-rear-facing-the-science-junkies-guide/ (awesome explanation of just the facts.)
http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/704630_2


She also loves to take selfie's :)

3. Middle Seat/Back Seat: Hadley's carseat is installed in the middle of the back row of our cars because that is the safest place for her to be in a collision (air bag deployment).  And her carseat fits properly there.  If it didn't, she would be on one of the sides.  Unfortunately, we only have one middle seat in our car (ha!) so I'm going through some major mommy guilt as to which child should be in the middle when the new baby arrives, haha! ;) 

**Obviously when Griffin came, we had to switch around carseats.  Both of my babies are now on either side of the car.  If we ever put a carseat in Grammy's car (etc.) the carseat goes in the middle.  Unfortunately it's just not an option with two! ;)

http://thecarseatlady.com/center-or-side/


My two babes!


*Clearly unimpressed with the proceedings.

4. We keep the car seat manual with the car seat at all times.  Chicco even has a little compartment for it.  That way, if we are ever out and need to change the car seat to another car, if we have questions regarding how she's sitting, etc., we have a go-to immediately for answers.  Yes, we do all of these things because "research says so", but we also do what we do based on how Hadley's car seat works best.  

**We still do this with both carseats**

Here are a few other links if you're interested:
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/on-the-go/Pages/Car-Safety-Seats-Information-for-Families.aspx
http://www.safercar.gov/parents/CarSeats/Car-Seat-Safety.htm


*Holding Mommy's hand.  She'll always do this, right??--the answer to this is no.  She no longer does this...ahhh my heart!

Remember, these are just the things we as a family are doing to keep our baby girl safe.  What about you mommas?  What car seats do you use?  Any tips I should incorporate?

 

Tiny baby boy!