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What's In a Name?

Heading back to my 31 day blog challenge, that is going to take the rest of my life to complete! ;)  Today's question was, "what's the meaning behind the name of your business?"



Well...I don't have a business.  Momma ain't got time for all that.

So, I thought I'd tell you the meaning behind my blog name instead.  It's really not much of a story, but let me tell you, I agonized over the name of this silly blog for far too long, haha! I felt like it had to be absolutely perfect.  It needed to be catchy so people would want to read it!  It needed to be some cute play on words!  It needed to reflect how in-depth my thoughts would be!



I'm serious, friends.  I have no idea what my problem was.  (I so wish there was a laughing crying emoji for blogger.)



In the end, I settled on a short and sweet description of our days.  Right now, in this time of my life, I survive on coffee and with two toddlers- we are constantly wiping off, walking on, and sleeping with (ha!) cookie crumbs everywhere.


*Exhibit A: Crumbs.  Poor second child had to get his own snack.  At least it was healthy? Haha :)

This blog is really just a journal for me and my family, if they choose to read it.  Every once in a while I do some fun posts about my thoughts on certain subjects or what toys my kids have loved at what ages because those kind of posts have been so helpful for me along my motherhood journey, but mostly I post about my kids.  And our life- our fun times and our struggles, our dreams and our realities.


*Girlfriend found the lipstick!  Doesn't she look beautiful?

So, my blog name, "Coffee and Cookie Crumbs" is just an accurate depiction of any random day at my house in this time of sleepless motherhood and messy toddlerhood.  Maybe one day, if I get some fancy blog design, I'll add a tagline like: "Finding joy in the messy moments of life" or "Our quiver full of messy blessings" (based off Psalm 127:3-5...you know it--children are a heritage from the Lord...blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.")


*My quiver.*

Anyway, I added a whole lot to this blog just to tell you the meaning behind the name, haha!  I hope you all have a great weekend!  I know I will...I turned in my last assignment of the semester this morning!  Now I have two glorious weeks of nothing before summer sessions start up.


*Doing the happy dance at 5:30 this morning after finalizing my policy brief and turning that bad boy in!

And please--I'd love to know the meaning behind your blog names!  Tell me I'm not the only one who  had such a hard time coming up with the "perfect" name, haha!

How I Stay Organized


*So really, that picture has two points: first, obviously I need coffee in my life to function, but second....my nails are on point.  Love that color.  Can't remember the name, but I love it.

Anyway....

I am a Type-A extrovert and always have things going on.  Always.  And if I don't have something planned, I make plans because I thrive in staying busy. Throw in graduate school, work, a house to keep up, meals to cook, and 3 other people to keep track of (yep, I'm including my husband here!) and that alone is enough to make any introvert want to crawl in a hole.  (I feel ya, my husband has a hard time keeping up with me!) Sometimes I have so many things planned that inevitably things slip through the cracks.  I always hate that because I'm usually letting someone down and it's typically a sign that I have too much on my plate.  So, over time I have come up with some things that keep me a little more organized and help the day-to-day run much smoother!

First and foremost, I have to have coffee.  I know, I know, caffeine is "addicting", but I can't start my day without coffee.  I don't drink sodas or tea, but for some reason the coffee really wakes me up.  My brain starts to function (I get up at 5:30am) and during that peaceful first cup before the kids get up...I have time to actually THINK.  So, other than my coffee fix, how do I stay organized?

[ONE.]


I have a paper planner. (Mine is the day designer planner made specifically for Target last year, I can't find the link to it!)  I know a lot of people sync their phones, iPads, and computers now, but I just cannot get my head wrapped around that.  I need an old-fashioned, paper and pen planner with monthly and daily views.  Each evening, I sit down and go through the following day so I know what to expect and create my timeline to get things done.  

Speaking of calendars, I also have a big calendar hung up in the kitchen to keep important dates on that we can easily glance at.  If your family is anything like mine, we tend to congregate in the kitchen (hello, food!) when we are talking about future plans so it just makes sense that our wall calendar is within eyesight there.  My favorite wall calendars are the Shutterfly ones that have my babies pictures all over them. :)


[TWO.]

Those planners and calendars?  Are color-coded.  (Of course they are!)  Each person in our family has a designated color (as do travel and "special" events) and they are the same for both calendars.  Annnd if I'm feeling really Type-A, then I'll put it in my phone calendar as well, which is also color-coded to the correct specifications.  I seriously feel like a lunatic typing all of this out, haha! 

[THREE.]



In the past, I did laundry on one day and one day only.  I know some of you are laughing at me behind your screens (it's okay, really!) because how does that work??? And to be honest, it worked for a 2 person family, but for four?  It doesn't really!  As our laundry pile continues to grow, my tactics have had to change.  Laundry days are now Wednesdays and Saturdays.  I spend half as much time doing laundry because the piles are smaller.  I've never hated doing laundry, my biggest qualm is with putting the dang stuff away.  I loathe putting laundry away and this keeps my piles small enough that it really isn't an issue.

[FOUR.]




I vaccuum or sweep our main living ares everyday.  We have wooden floors throughout our entire home and lots of crumbly kids running around.  I hate walking on crumbs, so every evening after dinner I vacuum and sweep. That way, when the weekend rolls around, I spend less time cleaning and more time working on school work, playing with kids, or getting projects done around the house.

[FIVE.]



I meal plan.  Yep.  I'm "that person".  I have to.  From 2-5 every day my kids are like hungry monsters.  They are always wanting snacks and drinks and more snacks and I better have dinner ready at 5 or World War III is going to start right in my very own home.  Instead of trying to figure out what I'm cooking each day, meal planning allows me to know what needs to be prepared ahead of time.  I even write down our meals each week in a notebook so I can refer back to it on weeks we can't think of anything.


These are some of the things I've learned to do overtime to decrease my anxiety level about my busy life.  But, I can always use more organization tips- so, what are yours?  Throw 'em at me, because I need all the help I can get!

Erin










5 Rituals for a Better Day



I don't know about you, but for me, morning's can be a real struggle.  I've always been a night owl and loved sleeping in.  When I got a job as a night shift nurse, that didn't help matters!  I was awake all night and sleeping during the day.  However, when kids came into the picture, I had to change up my routine.  I'll be perfectly honest- I still don't get much sleep.  Both of my babies still get up throughout the night and I've learned just how little sleep my body actually needs to function.  (Unfortunately, my body may pay for it down the road based on this article!)


*We had a lot of fun on night shift!*

Lack of sleep, busy toddlers, schoolwork, and keeping the house clean all weigh on my shoulders.  Over the last few years, I've worked out a "routine" that I've found helps me start my days on the right foot and deal with whatever life throws at me.  It's trial-and-error, not set in stone, and as my needs change, so will my routine, but here is what works for me right now:

Shower the Night Before
Here's the thing: I don't shower everyday.  (gasp!)  I'm not a hippie, I'm not an oil-lover, and I wear deodorant, okay??  But I do think commercial soaps dry out your skin, mess up your skins natural oils, as shampoos do to your scalp as well.  My skin has gotten a little more sensitive over my pregnancies and this is what I've found that works for now.  Showering the night before allows me some peace and quiet (hallelujah!), I'm not constantly making sure my kids are locked in the bedroom with me, and I'm not having to get up any earlier than I already do to shower in the morning.  I can relax in a hot shower while hubby pulls some night routines with our kiddos.



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Get Up 2 Hours Before Kids
This has been such a key to feeling like our day is going to go well.  I get up at 5:30am every day (except weekends, but I still get up around 7am then.)  Getting up 2 hours before my kids gets up allows me to spend time with God in the quiet morning hours, check/answer e-mails, work on schoolwork uninterrupted, and get a head start on the day.  I feel so accomplished by the time my babies wake up that I feel good about spending time with them instead of running through the list of things that still need to be done.


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Cup O' Joe
The first thing I do after I get up at 5:30am is make a cup of coffee.  I can sit quietly and actually enjoy my HOT cup of coffee, instead of random sips of cold coffee as I'm chasing toddlers around.  I can literally feel my body waking up and becoming more productive.


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Devotion and Quiet Time
Oh, how much I need this.  One of my absolute favorite times of the day is sitting with a warm cup of coffee in my hand and reading through the Word.  Spending time with God--without multiple demands (Please God, just help us get to school on time!  God, if you hear me, please get my daughter to stop sassing me before we both need time-outs!  Lord, I need you to give me some patience right now...)--in the early morning hours is one of the best things I do to start my day.  Coffee wakes my body, quiet time with God wakes my soul.


Look Over My Planner
The last thing I do is look over my planner for the day.  It's divided by time slots and I fill in what I know.  That allows me to see my "free" time and I can plan my to-do list around those free slots.  Having a plan for the day helps my stringent, Type-A personality feel a little less anxious and like I can tackle the day.



My routine is fluid and will change as my needs change.  If I feel like I need more sleep, then I take it!  If I need another cup of coffee to get me going, then I make one!  What are some things you do that help start your day on the right foot?